RED FLAGS FOR POSSIBLE LD
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In recent years, there have been fundamental changes in our understanding of ADHD due to the tremendous advances in just the past decade of scientific research (numerous genetic and brain imaging studies ). Although the theory that ADHD is really a disorder in the development of executive functions has been promoted for many years by leading ADHD researcher, Russell Barkley, Ph.D., and others, it is now the accepted belief by most ADHD experts in the field.
What does this mean to parents and teachers? It means that ADHD is far more than a disorder of the three core symptoms (inattention, impulsivity, and sometimes hyperactivity). It is not just a neurobehavioral disorder. It is far more complex than that. ADHD is really a disorder in the developmental of the child’s executive functions – the management functions and range of central control processes in the brain…the self-directed actions a person takes to achieve their goals and solve problems. Kids with ADHD are developmentally delayed by a few years (about 30 percent) in their executive function and self-regulation abilities.
What are executive functions? We don’t know exactly all of the components, but most experts agree they involve:
See my blog of July 2012 that includes an excellent 5 minute video on the development of EFs, from The Center on the Developing Child, Harvard University. Watch for future blogs of strategies, supports, and resources that parents and teachers can use to help children and teens with executive function (EF) weaknesses; as well as those found in my books and other resources http://www.sandrarief.com/products/
by Sandra Rief, 2014
1. Kids with ADHD seek stimulation. When your child’s behavior is pushing your buttons, avoid an explosive and emotional response…which is very stimulating. If you react with a highly charged response, you will actually be rewarding and reinforcing your child’s misbehavior, and you can expect that the undesired behavior will continue to occur.
2. Try your best (as difficult as it may be) to remain calm. To help do so: Take a few deep breaths. Relax your jaw. Uncross your arms and lower your voice. If need be, take a break and leave the room to gain your composure.
3. When delivering consequences (e.g., time-out, loss of privilege, fining) for the misbehaviors you need to address, use a neutral, matter-of-fact voice with as few words as possible.
4. Avoid nagging, scolding, lecturing, or threatening.
5. Realize that you cannot control your child’s behavior. Change what you can control…yourself (your attitude, body language, words, tone and volume of voice, strategies you use, consistency and follow-through). In doing so, it will have a direct, positive effect on your child’s behavior.
6. Disengage from power struggles. Do not take the bait. Remember that you cannot be forced into an argument or power struggle. You only enter into one if you choose to do so (it takes two). Say calmly, for example, “I am not willing to argue about this now. I will be free to discuss this later if you wish (and set a time to do so).”
7. Affirm and acknowledge your child’s feelings (“I see you’re upset.” “I understand that you are angry now.” “I can see why you would be frustrated”).
8. Avoid “why” questions (e.g., “Why did you do that?”). If your child is impulsive and lacks inhibition, there typically isn’t a “why” behind the behavior.
9. Use “what” and “how” questions: “What are you supposed to be doing right now?”, “What is your plan to solve the problem?”, “What can I do to help you?”, “How would you like me to remind you?” ,“What would you like to see happen?”, “What do you think will be the consequence if you continue with this behavior?, “What are you risking by doing that?
10. Send “I” messages. (“I feel ____when you ____ because ____.” “I want/need you to ___”).
11. Provide choices: “I can’t make you ___. But your choices are either ___ or ___.” You may want to give 3 choices ( A, B, or C) so your child feels he/she has more control. For example: A. “You do what I am asking right now.” B. “You choose not to do it and _____.” (negative consequence will occur). C. I set the timer for x minutes and you do it as soon as the timer goes off.” “Your choice.”
12. For those misbehaviors you need to address, it is important to respond and follow-through with whatever appropriate consequences you establish (e.g., loss of privilege, loss of points, time-out, loss of access to a favorite item or activity), and not be deterred by your child’s arguments, crying, or promises that they won’t do that (behavior) again. So, be sure the consequences you choose are realistic and enforceable.
13. Remember that children with ADHD require much more frequent and stronger rewards for motivating them to change behavior (specific behaviors that are problematic and need improvement). Incentive systems and behavioral programs that other children typically don’t need are likely necessary for your ADHD child.
14. Above all…FOCUS ON THE POSITIVE! Make a conscious effort to pay attention to, compliment, and reinforce your child when he/she is cooperative and behaving appropriately. Noticing, praising, and recognizing your child at these times is very important. Make sure you are giving your ADHD child far more positive feedback and attention (at least 4-5 times more) than negative.
15. Be aware…Kids with ADHD receive a much higher degree of criticism, reprimands, and negative feedback than other children typically do throughout the day – at home, school, and other settings. This is very demoralizing and can be damaging to their self-esteem. Focusing on creating an abundance of positive interactions and nurturing a loving, respectful relationship with your child is the most important thing to attend to as a parent.
The content of this blog is adapted from my books: The ADHD Book of Lists, How to Reach & Teach Children with ADD/ADHD, 2nd edition, and The ADD/ADHD Checklist, 2nd edition
http://teachingchick.blogspot.com/search/label/classroom%20management
http://indulgy.com/post/zKsIgPXwX1/classroom-management-idea
October 2013 is ADHD Awareness Month. The mission to raise awareness, reduce stigma, and dispel the myths about ADHD is very important. If you haven’t already done so, check out the website ADHDAwarenessMonth.org to see the many events taking place during the month, and find free, wonderful resources and information to share with others. Be sure to also go to these websites for valuable information about ADHD:
National Resource Center on ADHD
Children and Adults with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (CHADD)
Attention Deficit Disorder Association (ADDA).
ADHD Coaches Organization (ACO)
I highly recommend the free webinars on several topics of interest by ADHD experts available through ADDitude Magazine , CHADD and the National Resource Center on ADHD. If you miss the webinars when they air, you can still listen to the recorded webinars at a later time.
I really like this class management strategy which has a number of variations in how it is implemented by teachers. It’s a simple but effective technique that most kids buy into, and that requires no preparation time. Basically, the way it works:
The teacher keeps a visible tally (e.g., on the board) of teacher points versus student points. When the kids are on-task (or demonstrate any specific target behaviors the teacher wants them to improve), they get a point. When the kids are off-task or fail to demonstrate the target behavior, the teacher gets a point. At the end of the day, class period, or other designated time, if the students earned more points than the teacher, they are rewarded in some way. If the teacher had more points/tallies than the students, the kids would lose out on the reward/privilege.
In her blog DownEastTeach , Cathy shares how she uses this technique in her classroom:
When students are on-task, she just walks over and puts a tally mark in the student column. If they are loud, off-task, or not following directions, she makes a tally under the teacher column. She says that often all she needs to do is walk towards the scoreboard if the students are being too loud, and they immediately quiet down without her having to say anything. At the end of the day, whoever has more points earns 5 minutes. If students win, they get to put the 5 minutes toward Friday afternoon’s Choice Time. If the teacher has more points, she keeps the 5 minutes for learning (as that means the class had been off-task during the day and had lost learning time they need to make up). Sometimes she allows individual students to earn a point for the entire class. I love this option of enabling individual students (e.g., those with ADHD) to be a class hero and earn a point for the class. Read more at her website: (http://downeastteach.blogspot.com).
One variation of this system was shared with me by Glenda S., a university student of mine. Her students are seated in table groups. The students each have a 2×2 or 3×3 post-it note on their desks with a T-chart on it. On the left side of the “T” is their name and the other side of the “T” is their group number. Throughout the period when an individual or the group demonstrates “on-task” behavior, they get a point and can put a tally mark on their individual or group side of the “T”. If an individual or group is off-task, a teacher tally mark is put up on the board. The goal is for each student to have more tally marks (individual and group tally marks combined) than the teacher. When introducing this strategy and teaching her expectations for on-task behavior, Glenda awards points/tallies very frequently and for short segments so students experience success. Then gradually the criteria gets harder and she scales down the frequency of giving points.